We are family: What do we see in these people?
When my daughter was turning one this February, she exhibited a lot of changes in the way she tried to speak, react, understand what we were telling her. She had always been a fan of the Kulfi man who rings a bell and rides across our street everyday on his tricycle. Since almost when she was six months old. Around the completion of one year, she had learnt how to imitate how the kulfi man rang the bell. Whenever he passed by, I would ask her (in Tamil) "Kulfikaaran epdi mani adichaan? (How did the Kulfi man ring his bell?)", and she would lift up her right index finger and sway it in the air rapidly back and forth. For those of you who know Tamil, I was using the word 'kulfikaaran' which is not an approved usage of referring to any person. Such a usage is slightly demeaning in the literal sense. After a few occasions of usage, I paused to think a bit. If I was using a language which would actually put that kulfi man one step lower in the society, what would my daugh...